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I am bitch and all that come before me

 I am committing to finishing bell hooks this week, I want to start Giovani's Room by James Baldwin. So I am reading bell hooks and it according to me that while I have heard and understood what 'self actualized' means I only know it by my context clues  definition  and not the textbook definition.   Self actualized: means realizing and fulfilling your unique potential, creative abilities and your personal desires. (Coined by Kurt G.) Maslow's hierarchy of needs is a conceptualization of needs  that motivate human behavior. I needed to write this definition because I wanted to talk about what I am reading and I did not want to discuss without knowing what I am talking about.    "Young women want to embrace the "hard bitch" image because it keeps them from having to confront the pain that comes when females are pain that comes when females are punished for choosing to be self-actualized and successful."  What we do think, are we embracing...

2. Unrealistic Expectations to release

 Day 2!! There is this Spongebob .gif of Mr. Krabs I am going to put in this entry. There is this episode where Mr. Krabs open up the Krusty Krab for 24 hours. It's pretty funny. 


I have much to do homework wise so let me say at least 3 unrealistic expectations. 


1. For things to stay the same. 

2. For people to know how I feel if I do not express myself. 

I think that is it maybe ? I am not sure I wish I could start dating but I am too nervous to put myself out there and I am not there yet on my self-care management. Like getting my nails done and having a better skin care and I really need to learn how to do lash clusters. I also want to implement getting a facial every month. Once I start to build that routine I will be able to be more comfortable putting myself out there. 


Anyways I don't know if I typed that as an unrealistic expectation I need to get rid of. There is always going to be something for me "to fix" but who knows.

I am going to be done now because I need to start HW and to work out. Additionally I need to write that burn letter soon. 


"My only relief is sleeping. When I'm sleeping, I'm not sad, I'm not angry, I'm not lonely. I'm nothing." - Jillian Medoff


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