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I am bitch and all that come before me

 I am committing to finishing bell hooks this week, I want to start Giovani's Room by James Baldwin. So I am reading bell hooks and it according to me that while I have heard and understood what 'self actualized' means I only know it by my context clues  definition  and not the textbook definition.   Self actualized: means realizing and fulfilling your unique potential, creative abilities and your personal desires. (Coined by Kurt G.) Maslow's hierarchy of needs is a conceptualization of needs  that motivate human behavior. I needed to write this definition because I wanted to talk about what I am reading and I did not want to discuss without knowing what I am talking about.    "Young women want to embrace the "hard bitch" image because it keeps them from having to confront the pain that comes when females are pain that comes when females are punished for choosing to be self-actualized and successful."  What we do think, are we embracing...

How you're different from the person at the start of the year

 HI!! Day 4 <3 


I am different a variety of reasons (at least I believe I am). I am in therapy. I am learning how and actively processing my emotions. I am happy. I am not coming off a break up. I am okay. I figured out my skin issues. I am almost done graduate school. I have a workout routine. I do word searches. I limit my screen time. I am reading more philosophy. I am reading more in general. I am not afraid for the future. I am always beginning. I am not living in the past. I am not angry. I am not sad. I am hopeful. I am unafraid. I am understanding. I am giving grace. I am empathetic. I am more honest. I am healthier. I do not give into desires. I am better. I am forgiving myself more. I am still introspective. I am still figuring out how to be. I am growing. I am in blossom. 


"I'm constantly embarrassed. I fidget and twist my hair and pull weird faces and stutter. Some days I feel quite confident, then others there's a microscopic flaw about myself physically, which will make me embarrassed to walk the streets." - Graham Coxon 

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