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I am bitch and all that come before me

 I am committing to finishing bell hooks this week, I want to start Giovani's Room by James Baldwin. So I am reading bell hooks and it according to me that while I have heard and understood what 'self actualized' means I only know it by my context clues  definition  and not the textbook definition.   Self actualized: means realizing and fulfilling your unique potential, creative abilities and your personal desires. (Coined by Kurt G.) Maslow's hierarchy of needs is a conceptualization of needs  that motivate human behavior. I needed to write this definition because I wanted to talk about what I am reading and I did not want to discuss without knowing what I am talking about.    "Young women want to embrace the "hard bitch" image because it keeps them from having to confront the pain that comes when females are pain that comes when females are punished for choosing to be self-actualized and successful."  What we do think, are we embracing...

What mattered the most to you this year.

 Hi!!!!

What mattered to me the most this year is the relationship with my sister, niece and nephew and brother in law. In particular, getting closer to my niece and nephew each year is super exciting for me. I adore them and seeing and watching them grow up. I think cultivating relationships are so important for you to grow. Additionally, wanting to be a better aunt than I had I am always going to choose hanging out with my niece and nephew the most. 

Something else that meant a lot to me is starting therapy. Although I have not written my burn letter I am going to. These prompts are going to be posted twice today. One right now and one later tonight. Also it is 5:45 am and I woke up choking so that is why I'm like "I might as well finish writing" or honestly I forgot until just now LOL LOL.


Reading meant a lot to me. I cannot go a day without reading something. It is important to me to stimulate not only my brain but escaping reality sometimes. I am loving the book Incarnate by Ramsey Campbell. It def is leaving me on the edge of my seat. 


Anyways, that is it for now. Thanks for listening. 



"My heart beat fast or did not beat at all; I could not say all that I thought and thought till words deserted me. I loved too abstractly." - Anjum Hasan

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